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That is not a result of some socially constructed stereotype that is "unfair" or "discriminating", nor can this imbalance be "corrected" with education. It is just how nature adult looking casual dating MN evolution work. Rally against it if you want, but there is no equalist utopia ane mating and dating. Better to accept reality and each be happy to do our find Sex Dates - looking for attractive and fit and play the cards we are dealt You can't quantify attraction into some scientific "formula.

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Very sensible advice Jeremy. Consistent with the research I've been conducting on Mating Intelligence: The mind is sexy indeed!

Best, Scott. Great, thanks for encouraging me to wear make-up and be fir feminine in order to attract men. Brilliant strategy for narrowing the gender gap. Wonderful way to play into socially acceptable desires. You're doing a wonderful service to humankind. Grooming, clothing, and staying in shape were attractive for both men and women.

I stated that clearly in the article. So, if you don't want to be "stereotypical", you certainly don't have to be. Again, this was not gender specific.

Again, this makes a difference in attractiveness for both men and women. And again I noted it in the article.

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But, you seem to have missed the part where men had to optionally hide their weak jaws and put on muscle. I never suggested such sex-specific features were "mandatory". I included the sex specific traits for completeness not to mention some people do like to be masculine or feminine out of choice.

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Just the opposite in fact. Reporting the opinion of these small percentages as the norm would unfairly characterize the motivations of MOST men and women. Again, that's why I stick with the research when I. Fallon, A. Wttractive differences in perceptions of desirable body shape.

Journal of Abnormal Psychology, 94 1 Seems to me that your sarcasm shows you want to eat your cake and have it. Everyone is reasonably free to "be a rebel"; to reject the norm, to act like an asshole, a deranged person or a person with serious attitude issues. Young people are free to stick ugly rings in their noses, lips, gay cam chat random, nipples, navels and more.

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Dqtes, then don't be disappointed in the results. So, why don't you just ignore what jeremy advises, beacuse aytractive advice is for all those sterotypically boring, intellectually inferior, morally decrepit simpletons who pursue "normal lives of quiet desperation. But, as a man, let's just say that I, and I'd wager most men, are not looking for women who are dedicated to looking like men to close the gender gap. Indeed, most of those women aren't looking for men at all, and they may be quite attracted to the look.

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Choose to look like what you want and accept the consequences. You think you have the right to change the game to suit your own agenda. Go for it, be happy.

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Maybe you'd find that preferable but not me. So all forms of rebellion are automaticaly juvenile? Sure glad the movers and shakers of history didn't listen to proud conformists like you. Do you not see shades of gray in broad concepts like rebellion? You throw gender-non-conformity into the same category as every other type of more stereotypically negative types of rebellion like drinking and drugging and acting like an asshole?

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Is it to an remove the competition, or is more likely that older women's longer hair may not be particularly healthy or well groomed? Or that women should be fussing round after their families, not themselves?

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You mention a number of points When those hairs are Datess or not well maintained, that display of longer hair is showcasing just the opposite.

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